So... this is one topic I find difficult for myself as a man. I learned to love women for who they are. The long conversations, the laughter... that is what really makes me fall in love with someone. Everything else is just more of the same. And I came to recognize that. If you are with someone who is mature enough, then you must understand your own beauty that they see. That you are far more than just what is on the surface and that they see that too. I only wish more of my 'species' was like this.